Author of

 "Good Kids, Difficult Behavior"

and "Discipline That Works: 5 Simple Steps"

 NOTES FROM THE EDITOR

Dear Educators and Friends,

We are introducing a new service to schools called Intervention Coaching.  This service allows your school to expand the scope of interventions and behavior management strategies by adding an experienced mental health clinician to your staff for a minimal hourly fee most school budgets can afford.

The coaching process is practical, time and energy saving, and most of all, facilitates success for both the teacher and the student.  It is available on an hourly basis and can be done via phone or e-mail after an initial meeting and assessment is completed.  The coaching sessions usually last one hour and may require up to 2-3 follow-up sessions.  The teacher leaves the session with concrete, do-it-tomorrow strategies designed to help both the teacher and the student reduce stress and become more successful.

Over the past fifteen years Joyce has seen an increasing number of children with emotional and mental health disorders struggling to cope in the regular classroom.  Many teachers are frustrated and distressed about how to help these students.  If you have such students, please give us a call at (770) 631-8264.  Joyce will be happy to discuss Intervention Coaching for you or your staff.  For a minimal investment of time and money, you can provide your staff the kind of support that can make a big difference.

The Editor

 

 ASK JOYCE

As Joyce travels and works with educators all over the country, she is constantly being asked---

 

"What do you do when...?" questions.  She has the greatest respect for "what do you do when questions" because usually the questioner is genuinely seeking new information and the teacher is willing to be a student.  Each month, Joyce will answer one or more of the most common "what do you do questions".  You are welcome to send one of yours.  She'll do her best to answer it.  Keep in mind, her answers may be different from the customary response but they are tried and true strategies for getting students to do what you are asking them to do.  Give yourself permission to try something new! Email Joyce at joyce@thehumanconnection.net  with any questions or situations you would like input on.  Let us know if we can show the question in a future newsletter or if you prefer to keep it private. We are hoping Joyce can help address situations you encounter and by sharing these questions/answers others can benefit as well.


From Joyce...

Welcome Back!  I am that for some of you summer vacation is only a dim memory because you have been back in school for almost a month.  In any case, I hope that you are off to a great start for the 2007-2008 school year.  I also hope that you are enjoying yourself and your students.  There is nothing as potent for storing information in the human brain as having fun in the process of learning.   I remember a high school teacher I met once who used all manner of games and competitions to get her students engaged and learning.  When I commended her for her energy and creativity in coming up with so many game ideas, she said “Oh.  I just had to.  It’s the only way I can keep their attention.  I just had to do it.” Make a commitment to have fun with your students this year. 

As I continue to travel about the country training educators, I find that the most requested program and persistent challenge for educators is Motivating the Unmotivated Student.  There are a multitude of reasons that we are seeing so many “unmotivated” students, especially among high school students including the lack of parental involvement, lack of exercise and nutrition, generational poverty and right brain dominance.  Understanding the reason for the lack of motivation makes a big difference in getting a student engaged and I will be addressing several of these issues in this and coming newsletters. 

There is, however, one thing that unmotivated students, at any age, have in common.  They are not oriented to the future.  They have little or no goal orientation, and live entirely in the moment and do not connect here and now actions with future consequences.  High school students will tell you on one hand that they want to graduate, and then do no work to pass a required class. 

The good news is that goal orientation is a learned skill and you can build the teaching of these skills into to your daily classroom routine.   Here are a few suggestions for helping students connect the here and now with the future:

  •      Post daily learning goals. This is different than posting assignments.  Learning goals state exactly what information or skill to be mastered for that day.

  •      Discuss the learning goals at the beginning of each class.  Be sure to connect the learning goals with real life reasons for needing this information.

  •      Discuss the benefits of knowing this information and how achieving these goals will help them feel intelligent as well as be able to pass the necessary exams.  Always discuss goals, and achievement in terms of the emotions associate with them and not just practical matters, like you’ll be able to get a better job.

  • o   Example:  Learning goal:  Identify the function of the three houses of Congress. 

    o   Learning Benefits:  It feels good and right to be a patriot.  It is fine say we are patriotic Americans but it isn’t really true if we do not know and understand how our government works.  Versus:  This will be on the test.

  •      Save time at the end of class to review the learning goals.

  •      Give students an opportunity to suggest ways of mastering this information.

  •      Let them try putting the information in a right brain format---drawing, music, building a structure.

     

Joyce

Volume 45 - September, 2007

 

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 INSPIRATION

In teaching you cannot see the fruit of a day's work.  It is invisible and remains so, maybe for twenty years.

 

Jacques Barzun

 

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 PERSONAL ENERGY SAVER

 

If you are trying a new teaching strategy with your class or a specific student, and things to do not seem to be going well, then stop.  What is not working, either in your teaching or in any kind of people to people interactions, drains personal energy.  Big time.  If it doesn’t work, don’t do it.  This is a simple precept that we often forget. For instance, if you have tried lecturing or arguing with a person, and they persist in what they are doing, stop.  Try writing your concerns, or asking them to write to you or just try giving things a time out.  It is OK to do nothing at times, especially if what you are doing isn’t helping you achieve your goals. 

 

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