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Author of
"Good
Kids, Difficult Behavior"
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"Discipline That Works: 5 Simple Steps"
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NOTES FROM THE
EDITOR
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Dear Educators and
Friends,
We
are introducing a new service to schools called Intervention
Coaching. This service allows your school to expand the
scope of interventions and behavior management strategies by adding an
experienced mental health clinician to your staff for a minimal hourly
fee most school budgets can afford.
The coaching process is practical, time and energy saving, and most of
all, facilitates success for both the teacher and the student. It is
available on an hourly basis and can be done via phone or e-mail after
an initial meeting and assessment is completed. The coaching sessions
usually last one hour and may require up to 2-3 follow-up sessions. The
teacher leaves the session with concrete, do-it-tomorrow strategies
designed to help both the teacher and the student reduce stress and
become more successful.
Over the past fifteen years Joyce has seen an increasing number of
children with emotional and mental health disorders struggling to cope
in the regular classroom. Many teachers are frustrated and distressed
about how to help these students. If you have such students, please
give us a call at (770) 631-8264. Joyce will be happy to discuss
Intervention Coaching for you or your staff. For a minimal
investment of time and money, you can provide your staff the kind of
support that can make a big difference.
The Editor
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As
Joyce travels and works with educators all over the country, she is
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"What do you do
when...?" questions. She has the greatest respect for "what do you
do when questions" because usually the questioner is genuinely seeking
new information and the teacher is willing to be a student. Each
month, Joyce will answer one or more of the most common "what do you do
questions". You are welcome to send one of yours. She'll do her
best to answer it. Keep in mind, her answers may be different from
the customary response but they are tried and true strategies for
getting students to do what you are asking them to do. Give
yourself permission to try something new! Email Joyce at
joyce@thehumanconnection.net with any questions or situations
you would like input on. Let us know if we can show the question
in a future newsletter or if you prefer to keep it private. We are
hoping Joyce can help address situations you encounter and by sharing
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From Joyce...
Welcome Back! I am
that for some of you summer vacation is only a dim memory because
you have been back in school for almost a month. In any case, I
hope that you are off to a great start for the 2007-2008 school
year. I also hope that you are enjoying yourself and your
students. There is nothing as potent for storing information in the
human brain as having fun in the process of learning. I remember a
high school teacher I met once who used all manner of games and
competitions to get her students engaged and learning. When I
commended her for her energy and creativity in coming up with so
many game ideas, she said “Oh. I just had to. It’s the only way I
can keep their attention. I just had to do it.” Make a commitment
to have fun with your students this year.
As I continue to
travel about the country training educators, I find that the most
requested program and persistent challenge for educators is
Motivating the Unmotivated Student. There are a multitude of
reasons that we are seeing so many “unmotivated” students,
especially among high school students including the lack of parental
involvement, lack of exercise and nutrition, generational poverty
and right brain dominance. Understanding the reason for the lack of
motivation makes a big difference in getting a student engaged and I
will be addressing several of these issues in this and coming
newsletters.
There is, however,
one thing that unmotivated students, at any age, have in common.
They are not oriented to the future. They have little or no goal
orientation, and live entirely in the moment and do not connect here
and now actions with future consequences. High school students will
tell you on one hand that they want to graduate, and then do no work
to pass a required class.
The good news is
that goal orientation is a learned skill and you can build the
teaching of these skills into to your daily classroom routine.
Here are a few suggestions for helping students connect the here and
now with the future:
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Post daily learning goals. This
is different than posting assignments. Learning goals state
exactly what information or skill to be mastered for that day.
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Discuss the learning goals at the beginning of each class.
Be sure to
connect the learning goals with real life reasons for needing this
information.
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Discuss the benefits of knowing this information and how
achieving these goals will help them feel intelligent as well as
be able to pass the necessary exams. Always discuss goals,
and achievement in terms of the emotions associate with them and
not just practical matters, like you’ll be able to get a better
job.
o Example:
Learning goal: Identify the function of the three houses of
Congress.
o Learning
Benefits:
It feels good and right to be a patriot. It is fine say we are
patriotic Americans but it isn’t really true if we do not know and
understand how our government works. Versus: This will be on the
test.
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Save time at the end of class to review the learning goals.
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Give students an opportunity to suggest ways of mastering this
information.
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Let them try putting the information in a right brain
format---drawing, music, building a structure.
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Volume 45 - September, 2007
http://www.thehumanconnection.net
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Joyce" below for her answer to an educator's question. What
would you like to ask Joyce? See how to send in your own question
below! We look forward to hearing from you during this school year.
Please let us know how it went if you try some of Joyce's suggestions.
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student, and things to do not seem to be going well, then stop. What is
not working, either in your teaching or in any kind of people to people
interactions, drains personal energy. Big time. If it doesn’t work,
don’t do it. This is a simple precept that we often forget. For
instance, if you have tried lecturing or arguing with a person, and they
persist in what they are doing, stop. Try writing your concerns, or
asking them to write to you or just try giving things a time out. It is
OK to do nothing at times, especially if what you are doing isn’t
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